Hi again.
Yesterday we covered a clever little tactic for staying in control of your stimulation levels during sex, even when your partner is in charge of the action. Today, we’re going to be looking at a really simple, but surprisingly effective technique that isn’t even used during sex—it’s used well before sex takes place. It’s called pre-empting the problem. Here’s how it goes.
Think of the last time you had sex with your partner which ended just a few disappointing minutes after it began. For whatever reason, you came too early—your stimulation levels hit the ceiling and the point of no return was passed. That’s okay, in fact, it’s a good thing because it allows you to grasp the concept that follows.
Do you remember what the status of your sexual organ, to put it a little biologically, was after you came? It became unusable, right? It took a break and therefore couldn’t be used to initiate sex again, at least, not for a good while. The thing to recognize here is that you can use this same principle in a positive sense to extend your sexual performance all the time. After you come, you are essentially unable to come again—unless you beat the hell out of it—for at least half an hour or an hour.
Every guy’s different but we all need some time to recharge. Once you’ve recharged and are ready to go once more, you are guaranteed to be less horny and sensitive—and therefore less prone to coming too soon—than you were the first time round. A simple concept, right? But it gets better. You see, you might be thinking that jerking off an hour before you have sex is a pretty unattractive, tiring prospect. But this is not what you have to do.
Instead, you need to calculate what your personal recharge gap is. What this means is that you want to discover how long before having sex with your partner you need to come to make sure that you don’t ejaculate too quickly when doing the real thing. For most guys who suffer from premature ejaculation, this can be as long as 8 hours before. This is a great thing. It means you can come early in the day, have a shower, go about your day as usual, then have sex with your partner in the evening without the problem of coming too early.
For other men, with more severe cases of rapid ejaculation, the gap of time might be shorter, say, 4 hours. But the principle still applies and it still works. Try it— to most guys it sounds too simple to work, but you’ll see that it can double, triple or even quadruple the length of your sexual performance once you know exactly what your personal gap time is.
Tomorrow you’re going be taught about another technique you can use by yourself, while not having sex, to build up a strong degree of sexual control, which will naturally carry over into the bedroom.
See you tomorrow.
This entry course has been created for you courtesy of Edward White at http://www.Prejaculation.com
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